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第13章 生活态度最重要（第2页）
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"ThelongerIlive，themoreIrealizetheimactofattitudeonlife。Attitude，tome，ismoreimortantthanfact。Itismoreimortantthantheast，thaneducation，thanmoney，thancircumstances，thanfailures，thansuccesses，thanwhatothereolethinkorsayordo。Itismoreimortantthanaearance，intelligenceorskill。Itwillmakeorbreakacomany，achurchorahome。
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"Theremarkablethingiswehaveachoiceeverydayregardingtheattitudewewillembraceforthatday。Wecannotchangethefactthateolewillactinacertainway。Wecannotchangetheinevitable。Theonlythingwecandoistolayontheonestringwehave，andthatisourattitude。
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"Iamconvincedthatlifeis10ercentwhathaenstomeand90ercenthowIreacttoit。Andsoitiswithyou。Youareinchargeofyourattitude。
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Thismeansthatnomatterwhathaenstoyou，itishowyoureactorresondtoitthatisimortant。
Youcantcontrolorinfluencecertaineventsinlife—earthquake，sabotage，terroristbombings，beingstruckbylightning，afreaktrafficaccidentandsoon。Butyoucancontrolhowyouthinkandfeelaboutsuchincidents，evenwhenyouaretheunfortunatevictimofanaccident。
Youcanchoosetomoanandgroanaboutyourmisfortune，aboutwhatyouhavelosthysicallyorfinancially。Oryoucanchoosetocountyourblessingsthatyouarestillalive，thatyouhavemostofyourhysicalormentalfaculties。Arolongednegativeattitudewouldmakeyoumiserableandregressivewhereasachangetoaositiveattitudewouldsuryoutothinkofossibilities。
Youcouldbetauntedordiscriminatedagainstifyoulostaleg，armoraneye。Youcanthelsomeinsensitiveeoledoingsuchthings。Ifyoufretoverwhatissaidandwhathasbeenderivedofyou，doesitmakeyouanyhaier，determined，erseveringorresourceful？
Therightattitudetotakeisnottoletinsults，sarcasm，rudeness，ridiculeormockerybotheryou。Whyresondnegativelytosuchbehavioursofothereole？Itdoesntaytostrikebackcontemtuouslyatthem。Ifyoudo，youareshowingthatyouareemotionallyweaker。
Showthatyouareemotionallystronger，thatyoudonothavetotradeinsultswithinsults，thatwhattheysayordodoesnotbotheryouatall。Showthedignitythattheydonothave。
Theainisnotinwhattheinsensitiveeolesayaboutyouordotobelittleyou。Theainisinhowyouinterretandreacttosuchacts。
Veryoften，wenegativelyover-reactto，or
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"toomuchinto，whateolesayordo。Itsacaseofseeingwhatwewanttosee，regardinganissueasbigwhenitcouldreallybeinsignificant。
Evenifeoleinrealityaredownrightinhuman，youcanchoosetoignoretheirbehaviourornotviewitnegativelyatall。Thatisrealselfmastery。
Losingaartofthebodyisnottheendoflife。Itmightbetheendofacareerthatyouweretrainedinandthebeginningofanewcareerbutagain，itmightnot。IfthefamousStehenHawkingcanseakthroughacomutergadget，ifagolfercanstilllaywithametalarm，thenatrainerwholosesbothlegsorarmscanstillfindsomeotherwaystoteach。
Whenyoulosehoe，whenyoudesair，whenyoublameeoleallthetime，whenyoudonotevenwanttotryandersevere，thenyouchoosetomakelifemeaninglessforyourself。
Whatisthevalueofintellect，imagination，education，knowledge，wisdom，exerience，cometenceandtalentifyouadotanegativeattitudeeveryday？
Toexandonwhatthewriterinthechurchleafletsaid，attitudecanmakeorbreakaerson。Eitheryouareinchargeoforyoulosechargeofyourattitude。
