Itsnotabouthowmanyfriendsyouhaveorhowaccetedyouare。
Notaboutifyouhavelansthisweekendorifyourealone。
Itisntaboutwhoyouredating,whoyouusedtodate,howmanyeoleyouvedated,orifyouhaventbeenwithanyoneatall。
Itisntaboutwhoyouhavekissed。
Itsnotaboutsex。
Itisntaboutwhoyourfamilyisorhowmuchmoneytheyhave。
Orwhatkindofcaryoudrive。
Orwhereyouaresenttoschool。
Itsnotabouthowbeautifuloruglyyouare。
Orwhatclothesyouwear,whatshoesyouhaveon,orwhatkindofmusicyoulistento。
Itsnotaboutifyourhairisblonde,red,black,orbrownorifyourskinistoolightortoodark。
Notaboutwhatgradesyouget,howsmartyouare,howsmarteverybodyelsethinksyouare,orhowsmartstandardizedtestssayyouare。
Itsnotaboutreresentingyourwholebeingonaieceofaerandseeingwhowill
"accetthewrittenyou。
"Lifejustisnt?
But,lifeisaboutwhoyouloveandwhoyouhurt。
Itsaboutwhoyoumakehayorunhayurosefully。
Itsaboutkeeingorbetrayingtrust。
Itsaboutfriendshi,usedasasanctityoraweaon。
Itsaboutwhatyousayandwhatyoumean,maybehurtful,maybeheartening。
Itsaboutstartingrumorsandcontributingtoettygossi。
Itsaboutwhatjudgmentsyouassandwhy。Andwhoyourjudgmentaresreadto。
Itsaboutwhoyouveignoredwithfullcontrolandintention。
Itsaboutjealousy,fear,ignorance,andrevenge。
Itsaboutcarryinginnerhateandlove,lettingitgrow,andsreadingit。
Butmostofall,itsaboutusingyourlifetotouchoroisonothereolesheartsinsuchawaythatcouldhaveneveroccurredalone。
Onlyyouchoosethewaythoseheartsareaffected,andthosechoicesarewhatlifesallabout。