“Im glad you like it。 You think you might have it done by Wednesday? I can e back and
glue it on the ceiling for you then if youd like。”
David nodded; but he was already intent on the puzzle; carefully laying pieces on the table。
My father put his hand on his shoulder and said; “Ill
see you Wednesday then; okay?”
He nodded。
“Will you say good…bye to Julianna?”
“Baaawye;” he said; but he didnt look up from his box of pieces。
“See you later; Uncle David。” I tried to sound cheerful; but I didnt feel that way。
When we got back into the truck; my dad clicked on his seat belt and said; “So。”
I just looked at him and tried to smile。
“Are you as exhausted as I am?” he said。
I nodded。 “Everything was fine—except for the ice cream。”
Dad chuckled。 “Except for the ice cream。” Then he turned serious。 “The trouble is; you never
know what ‘the ice cream’ is going to be。
Sometimes its a fly in the room。 Sometimes its the feel of his socks。 Its hard to predict
everything。 Usually getting ice cream is safe。” He shook his
head and closed his eyes; thinking things I couldnt imagine。 Finally he turned the ignition
and said; “David lived with your mother and me for a while。
Before you kids were born。 We thought it would be better for him to live with us than to be in
a home; but we were wrong。”
“But overall; everything went okay today…。”
He ground the gearshift into reverse。 “David has many; many special needs; both emotional
and physical。 Your mom and I couldnt handle them
all。 Fortunately hes happy here。 They have programs to teach him how to care for himself—
how to dress and bathe and brush his teeth; how to act
around others and municate。 They go on outings; and he has a job doing mailings for a
doctors office…。”
“He does?”
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“He goes there every morning during the week to fold mailings and fill envelopes。
Greenhavens been so good for him。 He gets an incredible
amount of individualized attention。 He has his own room; his own friends; his own life。”
After a minute I said; “But hes part of the family; Dad。 And it just doesnt seem right that hes
never been over for a visit。 Not even on Christmas or